That's exactly what it's like with my best friend, only he doesn't know I know. And apparently, his only excuse for not telling me is that he thinks he's been friendzoned. which is embarrassingly accurate
My best friend likes me. He told me that two years ago, and some times he randomly tells me in case "my feelings have changed". But they haven't, and our friendship has always been fine. You just have to be very cautious of that friend line, and don't cross it.
Like don't be overly touchy. Don't sit in their lap or whatever, or go out with him paying like a date, and don't get him to do things that'd he wouldn't do for others, but would do for you.
And also encourage dating with other girls.
Just saying. It can work out.
Thats how it started with me and my boyfriend. We told each other we loved each other for months. He asked me out several times but i turned him down because i was scared of what you are scared of now. Honestly if you guys act like a couple dating is no different trust me. My boyfriend and i literally will forget that we are dating because out behavior is normal to us. Also promise each other you will never leave each other if you really love him and explain to each other how important you are to each other and promise if you break up that it CANT affect your friendship. If you break up try to keep that friendship together. If you stay together forever it was a great choice. Good luck <3
That'show me and my boyfriend got together.... we were bestfriends and we said we loved eachother and we hugged and kissed sometimes yet we weren't going out. He had to force me though. Because even though I really did like him I just thought he was going to leave like the others =/ so I said I didn't but he got to me >.< and I got one of my friends to tell him to ask me out because I was to cowardly to do it. Now we've been together for about 2 months :)
Thats like me and my boyfriend except we are only at month one haha.
this is exactly what happened to me. Yesterday he told me it was either we start dating or we can't be friends. I lost him. And I don't know how long I can last without him.
i know a lot of people are putting up bad comments but mine, its going to be different. a secret is a secret. who cares if people think it is in question form. to me, this is wonderful, someone is finally standing up for people like me. yes there are other reasons, but the one you shared is one of the top ones. please dont listen to the others that commented on here. they are just doing this to put you down.
So the OP is allowed to put cutters down, but we aren't allowed to say that it's not a secret. Thats so fair. Well played. (sarcastically rolls eyes)
Actually, a lot of people I know just do it for attention. Sorry, but it's true. Also, is this a secret or a question?
Are you f*cking serious?
Even if I ignore the fact that it's not a secret, you still don't seem very smart to me. People self-harm for different reasons, not necessarily because they hate themselves. Is it really not clear to you?
And you are asking the internet because?
Obviously some people will.
Obviously some people won't.
You are a very stupid person OP
Yea, that's going to help her get over self harm. Good job.
I hate myself. I hate myself pretty damned often. I cut for four years, but I stopped because I didn't want to see the pain in my friends eyes every time my sleeve slipped. I still hate myself. There is no "point" that you get to if you cut yourself. Every single time you cut, you hit a new low. While you're doing it it feels wonderful. For me, I felt like I deserved it. But after, when you look down at what you did, you hate yourself even more. How this made it through and my real secrets havent, I'll never know. But if you're someone who never has and you're just judging, fuck yourself. But if you're questioning how you came to this "point" with the rest of us, be strong. I'm not going to tell you that i'll become easier. It won't. But you'll overcome it.
do you know how much hate and ignorance it takes to post such a harmful and horrible "secret"?
to make others intentionally feel worse about themselves?
do you understand how sad it is that you're a complete prick who has no sympathy towards others?
yeah, me either.
That was fantastic.
I feel like I'm being interrogated.
How did this make it through voting? Whoever voted yes you better comment so i can scold you.
Hmm... I came onto this site expecting sixbillionsecrets. However, it appears I've stumbled upon sixbillionquestions instead.
Ha! Made me laugh.
THIS IS SPARTZ!!!!! Heh. You thought I was gonna say Sparta.
That was extremely random
Why thank you, my good sir. (I DON'T CARE WHAT GENDER YOU ARE, YOU WILL ALWAYS BE A SIR TO ME.)
I agree. Like, I know the "You are beautiful" crap never gets anyones attention, but your body was born precious. Your skin is new, your new to everything. Why would you want to destroy that beauty instead if destroying something else? Like, break something instead of cutting on your precious skin.. Do something else!
i understand,and honestly ,ignore the reast of the comments,because im tired of cutting being normal,and people mocking it ,it shouldnt just be for nothing
What shouldn't just be for nothing?
thank you! my gosh, i have been reading through these comments and i can finally say i agree with one...
*I, *rest, *I'm, *shouldn't. Also, correct grammar means that you have a space after every comma.
EG. I understand, and honestly... etc.
Do you understand that this isnt a secret?
Wait, how is this a secret? It sounds more like a series of questions to me.
That would be correct.
Do you know the amount of pride some people take in getting branded and tattooed? It's the same actions for a different purpose and with a different result. Not everyone is going to have the same exact emotional prompting to engage in a self-harm behavior. Maybe you should take a deep breath and either talk to whomever it is you're yelling at, or ignore them and move on because they're not worth he effort.
Kind of related story, my friend back in I think 10th grade in shop class that we had together decided he wanted to brand his arm one day. Some other people in the class heated up some metal and pressed it to his arm. His mom was really mad at him for it. It looked nasty for a while too. My friend also said it didn't really hurt when the metal touched his arm, it was just the days afterwards that it hurt.
This post is extremely irritating.
So I'm just gonna throw in a comment about how not everyone who self harms does it because they hate themselves. for some people, it's a coping mechanism for trauma. some people are just a bit masochistic and like doing it. Some people have other reasons for it.
Anyway, shut up, OP.
Are you fucking kidding me? -_-
I understand what you mean, OP, but sometimes dreams have nothing to do with anything. In my dreams, I've kissed my ex-half-brother (I'm in a relationship), and I would be in a mental institution after nearly killed my boyfriend so I can be with my ex-half brother. Yeah, I don't know either...
I know how you feel here and it hurts for a while, hell it still hurts after 2 months. But you have to keep strong because things do get better trust me
Oh shit! I'll go out with my crush and get kissed by him. I'll be a good average weight and be a vampire. Shit just got good.
At first I read "I'll go out with my cousin.." 0_0
That'd be wrong. One of them is 8 and the other two are babies.
The 8 year old gets in temper tantrums all the time, has an Apple Mac (WTF) and wants to be a teacher but is the stupidest kid alive.
I get to play on a game show with OBAMA! What now, suckers!!!?? :3
WOOOO. I'm going to get magic powers and a hot boyfriend and really awesome pasta! No. I'm not. Dreams can be connected to things, but it doesn't mean it's going to come true.
I'm going to end up in a mental institution...
Me too! :3 0_0
make it 3!
This means WWIII is gonna happen....SHIT.
In all likelihood, it will happen one day... Move to Mars as quick as possible :')
This means I really can fly!
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For f*cks sake, please stop posting your email address on these secrets. I'm getting really bored of flagging them all, you complete eegit.
I hear you were flagged for giving out personal info? Sorry, no. You don't do that. There's millions of pedobears in the world so don't do that.
Oh so this means i am going to go to Warped, kiss Zack Merrick, and possibly have the best day of my life. Dude i can wait :D
So I'll be locked in a padded cell? D: OH HELL TO THE NO.
What if you just saw him with the french girl twice?
So laundry is going to attack me and there will be a zombie orgy? Dreams don't hold magical future telling powers, they are just made of your thoughts and worries and feelings and things that run through your mind. I'm sorry your boyfriend was cheating on you, hopefully you're out of that relationship and your next one has better communication and trust.
You've dreamt of zombie orgies too?! Thank the great Cheeto in the sky I ain't the only one.
Heheh...I too am strangely comforted.
Interesting dreams.... :)
Yeah and my music can tell me how other people are feeling.
Still searching for the secret in this post O.o
Um, I am not sure where you got this....how did this go through the voting?
Did you dream about posting terrible "advice" to a website made for secrets?
Slap on a headscarf and join a traveling circus as a psychic.
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don't forget the magical crystal ball !
Why the fuck were you suicidal in a restaurant? Seems like an unusual place to contemplate the meaning in your life...
So. Many. GMH. Posts.
Oookaaay, I refuse to believe so many OPs can be this stupid, so it must be a technical problem.
Hey- you never know. Stupidity is still a vast and un-curable disease.
Unfortunately, I believe that it's also contagious. Some just have a higher defense against it than others.
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It's not un-curable; just that the medicine is education and OPs seem to have an allergic reaction to it :(
A double post on the wrong site. Tisk Tisk Tisk. But i hate to break it to you but that didn't save your life. If i did in your mind you must not have been serious about suicide or anything along those lines.
Double post? Again?
A comment from a random stranger did not save your life. You would never have gone through with it if you think that saved your life.
I voted no. Many many times.
It got posted. Many many times.
*slap* to OP.
*slap* to those who voted yes.
*slap* to the foxes having funky time under my window.
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Foxes? Man, you must be some kind of aphrodisiac if they're getting funky under your window.
Haha they used to g*ng b*ng my cat under my window before it copped it. It was truly disturbing.
I'm pissing myself laughing now. :D
Did any of you commenters think that maybe he looked like a rapist/had a past? Just sayin...
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Like my old gym teacher. He literally LOOKED like the stereotypical pedophile and everything. And there were rumors that he raped a special needs girl. And looked into chicks shirt when they were stretching. O_O If he really was a creep, he must've been disappointed in me.
*random useless agreeing rant over*
What is up with the new commenting? I can comment normal off my profile, but everywhere else is now Disqus.
Same with me. I can only reply to things, but it's all disqus. What's going on Spartz?
I know, I just made a Disqus, cause, I actually like to comment. I broke down. SPARTZ!!!! YOU TRAITORS!!!
Arrrg. It sucks so bad. I don't have a Disqus, but I'm probably gonna end up making one 'cos this sucks. >_<
Spartz you tards. What's going on?
Or maybe he just wanted to fucking talk to you about something like a normal fucking teacher? Don't be so sure of yourself.
Maybe she had one of those gut feelings, or he has done things that are creeepy for her to think that, you dont know her, you werent in that situation, so people that are being rude, SHUT UP, until Yyouve lived her life, and were in her shoes completely you dont know every bit of it, so stop hating and get off this site if your going to be such jerks
Yes, copy people. It gets your point across. AND NO, STFU.
K I know I'm probably gonna get a lot of hate for this, but maybe OP had a gut feeling, not that she thought she was gonna get raped, but maybe she just thought there was something creepy and off about him. I'm not a rape victim, but my uncle molested me, and it doesn't really insult me. I know Im gonna get hate for this, all Im saying is don't make assumptions, and the comments on this site are really rude and sometimes it takes a lot of courage to post them.
Also, OP, don't put GMH in secrets, its just not right-.-
Oh my god.
I really, really hope you somehow in some odd way accidentally posted this here when you were trying to post this on GMH.
Like, I really hope you did.
WRONG WEBSITE UGH
What is this? I don't even...
FACEPALME TIMES 100000000
Firstly, a lot of times teacher's have held me back after class, with none of my friends around, when I was grade four. But not to rape me. To ask if I was okay and if there were any problems. It helped a lot knowing they were there for me.
Moral: Just because someone wants to see you alone, it doesn't mean bad things are gonna happen.
Secondly, that is fricking offensive. To everyone.
Thirdly, this is not GMH. Go away
P.S Stop being an idiot.
Oh, yeah. I forgot to add...Go to the right site!
You GMNH (Give Me No Hope).
If you hover your mouse after the time submitted, it lets you edit your comments. It is kind of hidden.
As someone else did, I feel it appropriate to share with you one of my stories.
Teacher: Can you please come see me after class? But not with your friends.
*I go to the teacher after class*
Teacher: I just noticed that you looked kind of down lately. Are you alright? Is there anything you'd like to tell me?
Me: Well, I haven't exactly been too well lately, I just don't feel happy I suppose.
Teacher: How would you rate your mood on a scale of 1-10?
Teacher: I'm sorry to hear that. Is there anything I could do to help you?
Me: Probably not, really, but thank you for asking.
Teacher: Just remember you can talk to me if you need.
Me: Okay, thanks.
And that, my dear friends is the story of a teacher who merely wanted to check if a student was alright.
You, my heroic friend, did indeed save yourself because I'm so sure they wanted to rape you.
Kudos for saving yourself.
How did you even come to that conclusion? They probably just wanted to check up on you or talk about something in class.
Gee-whiz. Why do people assume so much?
Don't automatically assume pedo, and learn to use the correct sites, ret*rd.
Honey you cannot judge a man who might just be trying to help you. You had no idea what he wanted to talk about and its sad that you think just because a male teacher worries about a student, he's a pedophile. Nobody should be judged and thought about like that.
I have been sexually assaulted and my dad is a male teacher! I'm twice as disgusted. You can't expect that people will praise you for degrading your teacher, who was probably just checking up on you. You're the reason people worry about society
I really hope that your reported him so that he couldn't do the same to his students. If you didn't, you need to. Now.
D: no! I was sexually assaulted by a non-teacher and in a separate fact, my dad is a male teacher. The fact that she said this disturbed me because my dad is one of the most wonderful people on the planet and she thought she was doing right for making assumptions about a teacher that was "creepy" just for being a man.
I HAZ DONE NOTHING
I have a lot to say about this "secret", but others have already done it for me
You. LITERALLY. Put. GMH. In. The. Secret.
this should have been on GMH but whatever. good on you for going with your gut. even if his intentions were innocent, there are bad people...better safe than sorry
I normally don't respond to people's stories with stories of my own, but I think it's appropriate here. Here's my similar situation when I was in sixth grade (I'm a guy, if that matters at all):
P.E. Teacher: Hey, come to my office during your lunch break. There's something I wanted to talk to you about.
Later that same day...
Me: What did you want to talk to me about?
Teacher: It's just you looked a bit under the weather lately. Everything alright?
Me: Yeah, just some stuff going on in my family, that's all. Not a big problem. Thanks for asking.
Teacher: If it's no big deal, then that's good to hear. See you tomorrow.
In my experience, teachers can and do worry about their students' health and problems. You have no idea what your teacher was going to do or say that day. That you immediately assumed that he was going to rape you and that you're a hero for saving yourself is quite presumptive and arrogant.
If you never considered the possibility that you may have actually been rude to him by never showing up, then that shows how narrow-minded you are. Granted, you very well could have been raped, but to blow your own horn and give yourself the title of "hero" is quite ridiculous.
By the way, what you essentially said is "I give me hope." Holy bojanski, that made me cringe.
Ooo what a hero. Making complete assumptions about the situation and skipping class by lying. The very peak of superhero we have here, people.
Ever think he was concerned about your poor PE grades, OP? I've seen my classmates go into the male PE teacher's office, and it was never anything more than the teacher showing concern for either grades or if you appeared to have troubles at home.
It's mindsets like yours, OP, that make men appear to be freaking creepsters instead of compassionate human beings. Stop demonizing every man you meet.
How does a 4th grader know about rape?? GMH is a different website. Not all adult males want to rape elementary school girls. I think this is offensive to rape victims.
Just the news itself talks about robberies, rape, murder, and just about every other bad thing. They probably heard about it from news shows.
You actually put "GMH" in this "secret". Like what the fuck. You obviously know that there's a site for those, so there's no excuse for this crap.
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You are very smart!!Im glad you didn't get raped!This is why i don't want to get married.
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What. the. F*ck?
What in the world does this post have to do with marriage?
Are you stupid?
i agree with you, what does rape have anything to do with marriage ? :S
but then again it's that persons life choice anyway.
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I'm fully aware that it is their choice. That's not why I questioned their intelligence.
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i hope it is
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This is sarcasm right?
Trooooooooooll in the dungeooooooooooon
i highly doubt she would be raped i mean......a teacher asked to see her. how is that immediatly oh no im gonna get raped?
*confused subsance over that retarded comment*
I sort of worry for the stupidity of most of your comments.
K, so, "congratulations" on saving yourself from a normal man, who probably just wanted to talk to you about how you were acting, and, this is probably EXTREMELY insulting to rape victims. Especially since its almost impossible to get raped in a school building with over 150 people in it at the time. And, WHY would you put GMH in it??? Just to annoy us with your retardedness??
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wow, this is like, exactly what i wrote...
Wow, this is like, exactly what pretty much everyone here wrote.
yeah but she/he used even pretty much the same words...
MINE IS IN PARAGRAPH FORM. GO ROT
btw, FUCKING SPARTZ, MY COMMENT HAS SUBSTANCE.
-they won't even let me ask "what?" without writing anything else. argh.-
I though it was funneh. :3
-fuuuuuucking substance -.-"""-
THIS IS SPARTZ!!!!!!
hahahahaha, i laughed waaayyy too hard on this!! :D
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THIS IS GETTING WAY TOSMALL!
YES! BUT SOMEHOW FUNNY
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I read this the first time and felt kinda bad but thought it was kinda dumb. Second time I read it, all I could think of was why was a FORTH GRADER'S first thought rape...
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*fourth... just ignore the spelling error... my bad
You can edit it. I mean, i figured you'd know that, but you commented for the spelling error.
I learned that right after I posted that... wonderful timing right?
Hmm... well, :3 carry on
Why do I even read these "secrets" anymore?
Because you know that the comments are usually more awesome than the so-called "secrets." Right? Or is that what I secretly hope for...?
Of course! The comments keep this site worth it! :)
Oh yep that has to be it because these "secrets" just make me question humanity. Thank you for reminding me Domino.
To be fair though, a lot of the comments are unnecessarily rude (I'm guilty of it every once in a while). But when the "secrets" are not secrets, or the OP is incredibly arrogant in making wild assumptions and patting themselves on the back with a golden hand, I say OP's asking for unsupportive comments.
Honestly I see nothing wrong with a little bit of rudeness. I consider these comments more of a wake up call than anything else. I'm just hoping the OP reads them so she doesn't run around thinking all male teachers are rapist.
Just because someone wanted to see you doesn't mean that he wanted to rape you.Not ever single person in this world is a fucked up person who only wants to rape little girls. Also I'm pretty sure he thought you would know how to get to his office. AND WRONG SITE!!!!!! :)
None of this makes any sense!
1. you don't know if he was going to rape you.
2. i could imagine that this is insulting to actual rape victims.
3. even if he wanted to rape you, TRYING is something different than what you described, namely going to.
4. wooow, you saved yourself from an until then undangerous situation? CONGRATS.
5. did you purposedly write GMH at the end just to annoy us?
6. if you even wrote GMH, why didn't you just post it to GMH then?!
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i completly agree with you it does offend me to (i wasnt raped but molested)
i'm sorry for you :(
its ok it was a while ago and i got over it w/ help of friends i just really dont like this secret it really pushes my buttons
i can totally understand that!
Wait, there's a difference between rape and molestation?
umm i would say yes. molestation is being unwillingly 'flirted' with, touched, but no sex. rape is unwilling sex.
*stabs self in eye with a fork*