Oh the power of Disney songs. Work wonders for self confidence. :P

This person should post a video on YouTube so that we can all listen to it! :)

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You got the name wrong.

How did this even get published?

Oh my. I feel so confused. Which one goes with which?

Your right. skip the negativity. life is better if your forget the haters. stay strong

There are people in life who will always bring you down. Skip the negativity and embrace the positivity. There are so much more people who care and do try and help. Life's a challenge and it's something we all have to learn to accept.

Don't scoff.
There are almost certainly a few people on this site who are genuine sociopaths. People who seriously want to hurt others and have identified SBS as a place where it will do the most harm.

The OP is right, the ones who post here are emotionally vulnerable people in need of help not mockery, and you shouldn't pretend this isn't a problem.

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The troll fad has taken over, and commenters live just to make you hurt. Just ignore them luv. They are all assholes who wish they had a better life so to make themselves feel better they will make you feel like crap. Just know there are still SOME decent people out there and I already know that assholes will take over and comment on this one but I really don't care.

Wow, 60 comments.

Then don't read the comments(:

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you know that when you post a secret everyone is going to comment and be completely truthful, when i join i didnt see a rule that said we had to be sympathetic about everything

amen. the commenters on here can be total assholes. what happened to an accepting and non-judgmental website?

Your "town" spot said "(do you love me? can you love mine?)"
...I don't...know you....how can I love you if I don't know you..
o.O Seriously. Chill out.

Hate to tell you this, but commenters are just logical. Some secrets are just stupid. I'm sorry.

If you know that's what's going to happen: Don't post.

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Okay, I know the "bad" commentators or "trolls" can be rude at times. But honestly, they most usually are right. Sure, the way the might put it might seem rude, but it actually is logical compared to the "gurl, u r bewtiful and don't listen 2 wat anyone says <3" stuff.

They actually see if it is a person that is just trying to get attention. Because they use parts of the secret as evidence.

But the other people, you know, the "u gurl u r butiful don't listen 2 them" type aren't helping. You have never met this person. You can't call them beautiful if you don't know them. This is not even support. Sure, you might want to make OP feel better but what I'd suggest next time is give them ADVICE.

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Everyone can fuck off. You're so amazing you don't even know.

UGGHHHHH. The only time commenters are mean is if the poster is posting something that obviously shows symptoms of "Attention-whore-itis". If it's a serious secret, we take it seriously.

DON'T POST SECRETS LIKE THIS ONE, this just makes the COMMENTERS feel stupid and worthless.

You stupid trolls. This site is supposed to be where people come together to SUPPORT eachother. Why do you have to ruin it and tear down other people's self esteem down even furthur? Trolls on this website- you sicken me. OP, There is proof that people care. A lot of the comments on this are telling off the trolls, and telling you that you are worth something. I truly believe that. Try not to let others tear you down. Have faith that tomorrow will be a better day.

Sorry, but HOW THE HELL ARE WE SUPPOSED TO KNOW WHAT OFFENDS YOU!? As I've said before, this is a community. People here give their opinions on situations. If their opinion offends you, you just have to deal with it, because in reality, EVERYONE WHO LOOKS AT YOU has an opinion on you, and sometimes their not good. It's exactly the same with your thoughts and secrets you post.

Do you want us to coddle you and tell you how special you are? Because we aren't going to do that. We give you realistic advice, or we tell you to get over yourself, both aren't bad at all. If people are going to cut themselves or commit suicide over a comment on an anon website, then they don't need to be on the internet. Stop blaming other people for your insecurities.

you are useful in a way and remember when your never alone :) i love you :)and to the people why put up sick comments why don't you just keep it to yourself ? no one gets hurt

Dear, the people who generally comment negatively on these posts don't have lives (HELLO, COMMENTER! =), so they have to make one via the Internet. Don't listen to them. Just use that little voice in your head to tell them to put up, or shut up.

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If you don't want to see rude or harsh comments, either don't read them or don't post your secrets. If someone takes what a stranger - an anonymous stranger, at that - says seriously, it is your fault. If you know something is going to upset you and do it anyway, you're the one to blame.

Not only that, most of the comments I see here have great intentions behind them and I see some genuinely great advice given. I like to think of it as tough love. Just because all of the comments aren't, "Omigosh, you're beautiful no matter what anyone says!" doesn't mean they're being mean or hurtful. Harsh, maybe, but not hurtful.

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Well, how about not reading the comments then? It might be for the best if you take a few strangers' opinions on the Internet so seriously.

You're not stupid or useless.

Well hello there PSA. Long time no see.

What is the reason for posting your secrets OP?

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